1 Month+ Update

I think I've been home 5 weeks now??? I don't know. What month is this?? Who am I??? Ha ha. 

I literally have NO time to post any more. Not a minute to spare. It will get better, but when I tell you my life of the past two weeks, you will understand.

I have been up to my eyeballs in medical appointments, dentist appointments, follow up medical appointments, teacher conferences, etc. The list goes on. It has just began to slow down.

One of the things that happens when you adopt an older child with an unknown past is all the holes you have to fill in medically speaking. They need immunizations updated, blood draws, xrays. Everything.

One of the things we had done is a bone scan of Roman to give us a better understanding of his age. The dentist was the first to weigh in on Roman's age. He said absolutely no way is he 8. He said it was more like 6. Then the doctor evaluated him and said all his height/weight, etc. pointed towards 5. Yikes. Then we had a bone scan done and it was confirmed that he is most likely 6. 

Roman was found as an older child so they guessed his age. I don't blame anyone...but...I thought I was twinning Johnny, not Lily!! You might say, what's the big deal? The big deal is I was already sort of twinning Lily with London. So that basically means I just created triplets!!! So, yes, that is why I haven't posted much...I am over-run by high-energy, crazy, type A, non-stop talking TRIPLETS!!! When my husband found out Roman is most likely 6, he told me that when London turns 6 their ages will be 666 and that it kind of fits them right now. HA!!! True, so true.

I have been taking more pictures with my phone than my camera lately, it seems. I feel like such a slacker when it comes to my photography class right now. Here are some blurry phone pics:

Roman and Lily, the human tornadoes, having fun at our pathetic, poor excuse for a mall. 

Roman's first day of school. He wanted to go so bad, so I reluctantly put him in. He's in first grade and most likely will be in first grade again next year, due to his age. We have no idea what we're doing!! Just flying by the seat of my pants here people!!  The school has been so supportive and are working with him at his abilities in math, etc. 

Medical appointment here in the states. I have no idea why London was hiding her hand in the picture. Roman was not his happy self here. He actually had a full-on melt-down when the doctor came in. He was abandoned at a medical facility and he remembers it well, so he had massive anxiety the moment we walked in. Then when I was talking to the doctor she began asking questions about his medical history. I began telling her what I knew, and like a moron, I began to tear up, which made Roman's anxiety worse. I pulled it together and we got through it, but these are some of the moments that adoptive families are talking about when they just give you a blanket statement and say, "The first few months are hard." Yep, it's because even medical appointments are traumatic. For everyone.

And here is a hilarious picture of Johnny. Picture it, a Sunday morning, dressed for church, and my son, who is prone to bloody noses, gets a bloody nose that won't quit. I will spare all the disgusting details, but he had a cough, so the pressure just made the blood keep coming. So we headed to the ER, all dressed up, and this is what insurance covered: a glorified clothes pin. His nose is so small, it kept falling off. I couldn't quit laughing. The doctors sprayed something up his nose, talked about coderizing it sometime in the near future (gross) and sent us on our way. 

And last but not least, this is a Roman burrito. The boy entertains himself. He is a party all by himself and everyone is invited to the party. The boy is either going to be in the entertainment industry or he's going to be a preacher. He loves church, loves to worship, but he also acts like he's in a Saturday Night Live skit 24/7. 

A quick horrible Roman story: 

I asked his teacher last week how he was doing in school and she hesitated and asked me, "Well, in what area?" I replied, "Well, any area, but I can tell by your voice there's something." She said he's having an issue in the restroom. The restroom??? Really?? Do tell. Well, I guess Roman was doing the thing that Lily did when she first came home. She would drop her drawers the moment she needed to go to the bathroom and THEN head into the RR. And afterwards, she would shuffle her way out the door with her pants still around her ankles. Well, I guess Roman was doing it at school. When he found out the other kids thought it was hilarious, he began to entertain them by turning around and mooning them, shaking his naked hiney at them. The more they laughed, the more it egged him on. I feel so sorry for teachers everywhere. Seriously.

So, that has been my life in a nutshell from the past two weeks...my 8 year old is really 6, and he's stripping in the restroom at school, my other son had a 4 hour bloody nose, and there are too many other stories to tell. As of right now, I need to go intervene on Roman and Lily trying to pull one of London's teeth without her consent...and it's not loose.